8 Rules of What to Wear at Someone Else's Wedding

Have you heard about the The 8 Rules of What to Wear to a Wedding , sounds hilarious right! 

First, this outfit set right here is what I wore on a wedding event last summer, attending one of my guy`s best friends wedding and it was my first wedding experience in Sweden. I didn't know there is rules on what to, or not wear in someone else`s special day. Where I come from people over dress in wedding events and I was surprise that in the swedish culture many women had very simple dresses. Even the bride herself wore a lovely ivory vintage type of dress with very little details, which made her look so gorgeous. 

This summer as well we are invited to four weddings, and now that I learned my lesson I will keep it simple and follow the rules. So unless you want to ruining a bride's dream day, learn the following rules: 

1. There Should Only Be One White Dress In The Room 

If there’s one thing to take away from how not to dress at a wedding, it’s that wearing white (or ivory or champagne, for that matter) is a big no-no. While not all brides are wearing white these days, it’s better to be safe than sorry. “Don’t take any chances wearing a white dress (no matter how casual it is), unless the bride specifically asks guests to wear white,” says Ivy Jacobson, an assistant editor at TheKnot.com. “Save it for another fabulous summer party!”

2. Remember The Rule of One

Showing too much skin is another faux pas at weddings. Despite how awesome you look and however many hours you’ve spent toning and tanning, the bride is going to want all eyes on her. That being said, it’s OK to accentuate your favorite asset. “[Your outfit] can have one sexy element like a plunging neckline, short hemline, cut out, low back, or a body con fit, but no more than one,” says Simone Hill, TheKnot.com’s assistant editor. “It’s a different story if you’re hitting the club, but a wedding is not the club no matter how low you’re planning to get on the dance floor.”

3. Accessorize Appropriately 

“Cleavage is not an accessory,” says Rebecca Dolgin, The Knot’s Editor-In-Chief. Let’s leave it at that.   

4. Read The Invitation 

You’ve marked the date on your calendar, booked a room at the recommended hotel, and made your travel plans, but did you notice where the wedding is going to be? I’m not talking about the city, but the actual venue. Paying attention to these details should hopefully answer any questions about what you should wear. “Look to the invitation for clues like ‘semi-formal,’ ‘beach chic,’ or ‘black tie,’ but read between the lines,” says Lauren Kay, The Knot’s style editor. “If the ceremony is at a church, you’ll need a pashmina to tone down your barely-there backless dress. If you’re still stumped, ask yourself this: If you met anyone tonight—your grandmother’s second cousin, the man of your dreams, a future employer—would you want to be wearing that dress?” I think the last part of this tip is good advice whether you’re at a wedding or not. It’s a small world, after all. 

5. Be Color Conscious 

This next tip, also from Hill, is one that I’m sure most of us have never thought about, but it’s something to be aware of nonetheless. “As far as color goes I actually try to avoid any solid color dresses in popular bridesmaid dress colors like coral, purple, navy, and gray for fear that I’ll accidentally match the bridesmaids and then everyone will ask if I’m in the bridal party when I’m not,” she says. “This one is a little overly paranoid, but I really like prints and bizarre colors anyway so it doesn’t limit me too much.” It could be hard to avoid matching the bridesmaids if you don’t have intel on their dresses before the wedding, but Hill suggests that “another way to avoid this is to add a belt or crop jacket to a dress so that it doesn’t look bridesmaid-y if you’re not in the bridal party.” 

6. Better To Be Over-Dressed Than Under

There’ll be plenty of opportunities to wear flip flops and cutoffs this summer, but a wedding is not one of them. “If the invite wording says the dress code is ‘casual,’ that still means absolutely no jeans, shorts, or tank tops,” says Samantha Roberts, TheKnot.com’s assistant editor. “Think a summer sundress or a pair of nice pants and blouse!”  

7. Don’t Steal The Show

This next tip comes from Jamie Miles, TheKnot.com’s assistant managing editor. She emphasizes some of the earlier points and reminds us that there are going to be a ton of pictures taken during the night — either by a professional photographer or via guests’ smartphones — so it’s important to dress appropriately. Let the bride stand out in her wedding photos. “If you’re attending a black-tie wedding, it’s particularly important to go long and whatever you do, don’t wear a super short, leggy cocktail dress,” she says. “You don’t want to steal attention from the bride, or show too much skin in the formal photos.”

8. Have Confidence In Yourself

It’s not your day, but that’s no reason not to be yourself. If you try to stick to some of the guidelines above then you should be all set. Hill offers one last piece of advice: “It’s really a balancing act of being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not terribly offending anyone.”